Why do women prefer intimate body language

Don't know if you pay attention, no matter how many women a hot day, likes to hold female companions or partners hand walking, chatting, laughing, but you rarely see men like this. The psychological roots of how this one does? Why do women prefer intimate body languagebody language, is actually a kind of psychological against. According to the armed police General Hospital psychological outpatient psychiatrist Shi Yu, Hu Naiwen introduction, love peer hands pull more women than men, due to different social expectations caused on the one hand, social expectations of the male is male and takes sole charge of indomitable spirit, more emphasis on a strong and independent, and more demands on women is considerate and a good soft. Such a social orientation nature on male-female personality development has great influence, on body language to express various emotions differently in women and men, some women prefer action to express intimacy, good will, while the male appearance to be independent, rarely used to indicate the intimate feeling. The other hand, from a psychological perspective, women more than men born insecure and keen senses of women more than men, especially tactile, and more body contact can meet the needs of inner sense, but also through this "zero distance" of close degree of exposure to identify themselves and each other. Everyone are has a psychological Shang of "security distance", is to self-for Center, and to around expansion, and formation a egg shaped of psychological defense space, once others intrusion, on will caused own of tension, and warning and against, more strange of people, each other Zhijian distance more far, body Zhijian of interval also on more large, instead, is said psychological defense space narrow, and relationship more close. Heilongjiang University international etiquette and across culture communication Institute Director, and medical psychology Dr Zhang Dasheng analysis think, from medical psychology angle told, female peripheral polyneuropathy more easy feeling to cold, mutual arm in arm is mutual heating, sought warm of feeling; from life habits speaking, Westerners is told individual of national, Chinese is stress groups sexual, and collective sexual of national, does not like too publicity, and exaggerated, and like to own placed in collective in the, and hand arm in arm two a people also on formation has a small collective; some female on own of ability or looks does not confidence, more like and others especially than own strong of staff arm in arm, get a psychological compensation, is was own of forces growth has, or Dang others to and own hand arm in arm that people cast to envy vision Shi, own also to has such of friends followed benefit from association with somebody or something has, psychological Shang get meet sense. Zhang Dasheng think, just gently take in together of arm in arm more of is representative a close relationship, and a collective consciousness; and like Active led, and pull others hand of female, is is more active to show own of female born "mother" components, and the on others of protection; and like and others ten means cross, does not consciously pinch others of people, relative Yu another party psychological more strong some, more willing to performance own some; like like koalas as hold with others arm of female, is sense obvious insufficient, while like dependent, life independence insufficient. Reporter Li hua

See July 30, 2009 Edition of the family health report of the original "mental stop"